[quote=thewendynator;#25510;1335958790]It depends, actually. Usually, it's the one who got dumped, but there's always a reason behind every break-up, so I'd have to say that the one who gets hurt and affected the most is the one who tried to hold on and did not give up even if everything seems wrong already. The one who always tries to keep everything from falling apart, that's who.[/quote] Very well said. But in my POV, I think girls are more affected in terms of breakups because we tend to be more emotional and expressive on our feelings. We sometimes forget that there's life after breakup and there are more fishes in the sea.