[quote=thewendynator;#25510;1335958790]It depends, actually. Usually, it's the one who got dumped, but there's always a reason behind every break-up, so I'd have to say that the one who gets hurt and affected the most is the one who tried to hold on and did not give up even if everything seems wrong already. The one who always tries to keep everything from falling apart, that's who.[/quote] And in some instances, it gets more difficult to the one who dumped.