1. [b]YOU�RE BOTH RESPECTFUL[/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/1_youre-both-respectful.jpg[/img] [spoiler]One of the easiest ways to tell what is a good relationship from what is not is respect. If you respect him, and he respects you, feel free to move forward. But if he�s disrespectful, or if you often feel less-than-respectful of him, it�s not a good, healthy relationship, and it won�t be later, either.[/spoiler] 2. [b]YOU�RE EXCITED TO SEE EACH OTHER[/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/2_youre-excited-to-see-each-other.jpg[/img] [spoiler]When you�re in a good relationship, you both can�t Wait to see each other� the time you spend apart is fine, but you really look forward to your time together.[/spoiler] 3. [b]HE�S UPLIFTING, NOT ABUSIVE � AND SO ARE YOU![/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/3_hes-uplifting-not-abusive-and-so-are-you.jpg[/img] [spoiler]When you�re in a good relationship, you�ll want to back your guy, highlight his strengths and fill in the gaps he might leave. He�ll do the same for you. What is a good relationship? One in which you build each other up, rather than tearing each other down.[/spoiler] 4. [b]THERE�S REAL CHEMISTRY[/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/4_theres-real-chemistry.jpg[/img] [spoiler]I know this is going to sound shallow, but one of what is a good relationship is a spark, some chemistry. I�m certainly not saying that sex is the most important thing, but let�s face it � it is important. If there�s no spark, then there�s a chance he�s more of a friend, and less of a boyfriend or potential husband.[/spoiler] 5. [b]YOU�RE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER[/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/5_youre-honest-with-each-other.jpg[/img] [spoiler]A good relationship cannot be built on lies, so unless you�re honest with him, and he�s honest with you, it�s not a good relationship. This includes big lies as well as smaller dishonesties� and if there�s anything you�re not sharing with him, now�s the time to start.[/spoiler] 6. [b]NEITHER OF YOU HAVE DRAMA[/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/6_neither-of-you-have-drama.jpg[/img] [spoiler]It�s almost impossible to have a good relationship if one or both of you are bringing drama into the relationship, or if you have a load of it outside of the relationship. Before you can think about a good relationship, your own life has to be straightened out. It�s true![/spoiler] 7. [b]YOU ADD TO EACH OTHER�S HAPPINESS[/b] [img]http://love.allwomenstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/7_you-add-to-each-others-happiness-not-create-it.jpg[/img]