Do you believe in it?
Do you offer your friendship to an ex? Have your ex ever pulled the line, "Let's just be friends" on you?
Or do you think that won't ever, ever work?
Tell us your stories!
[spoiler]I hope I'm not duplicating a similar thread or something [/spoiler]
I think it depends whether the boy and the girl were close friends before they dove right into the relationship.
[spoiler]Take me and my girlfriend. We were good friends (band mates too, actually.) before we decided to take a step up the ladder. We broke up when we were in 3rd year highschool. [i]i know you know the story Tres, so bear with me here.[/i] She and I never really talked much after our break up. We were 15, for God's sake. [i]Kids[/i]. but we stayed friends. After 3 months, i think, we started talking again. Nothing much changed. We were friends before and after the breakup. So like I said, depends on the two people involved.[/spoiler]
^I agree
Friends after being lovers do exist after all. I am friends with most of my past gf's (except with the moms of my 2 boys ). They were the one who offered me friendship so who am I to reject their offering (maybe they've realized I became cuter when they left me HAHAHAHA) and besides we already have our own lives so it's about time for us to start a new and just forget our silly misunderstanding, though it takes a while for me to be comfortable talking with them after of not having communications for the longest time.
Friendship-With-An-Ex exist. Like me and my ex. Tho we separated twice we are still friends. And it is better that way than we become acquaintance or like a stranger. We can still hang-out with each other without restriction or rules. So yeah. It is better that way.
As much as I wish it 's possible, it's a no for me. I don't really want to remember all the bad things I did in the relationship. Not because I'm "bitter," or anything, but because I just want a clean start right after.
Not happening, man. For me it's just too awkward. Although i'm not against exes being friends after their relationship, this requires a personal opinion so imma say no.
I am friends with my exes. Or if not friends, at least civil. But not right after the breakup. Usually, I make sure I'm already super duper okay before being friends with my exes again.
Friendship with an ex? Well...
My ex whom i loved so so much above any other is actually my bestfriend now. It might sound crazy but it really is the best feeling ever! Ofcourse theres no hiding the fact that there is still a feeling inside of hoping that everything goes well and we end up with each other again, but hey! Only God can tell. We can really never predict our future right? Whats important now is i know i didnt lose her completely, and that im happy with what we have now. I surely couldnt ask for more.
Hey Bes alenacarissa!
Im still friends with my exes, except one, so yeah it is possible.
I even got a lot closer to them after the relationship.
I think it will always depend on how it went. Forgiveness. Time. And all that.