I want to be a cool one and just treat my children as if we're just buddies so that they can open up and express more themselves with me as thir parent. ^^ [b]1. Are you going to talk to them about protective sex?[/b] I don't think so. Haha. They'll find about it eventually at some point of their lives. But I'll talk to them and make them learn to save themselves for marriage and abstain from any sexual intercourse until they tie the knot. It's one of my values that I want to pass on to my children. [b]2. What age are you going to let be in a relationship? [/b] It depends. If I can see that they are mature enough and that the boy/girl they like pass in my standards, then go. I won't hold them back. [b]3. What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo?[/b] No particular age really comes into my mind. Hmmm.... as long as they are not troubled, then I'm fine with it. Even though I never drink and smoke and I will never. (tattoo is absolutely fine to me tho) [b]4. What if you caught your child smoking weeds?[/b] According to research weeds have good health effects too. Lol, but when I found them smoking weeds, I'll talk to them and ask why they are doing it. Shrink them. Also, I'll make a way for them to enjoy other things so they can at least avoid smoking weeds again.