A cool one [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]1. Are you going to talk to them about protective sex?[/quote] yes, always, im going to tell them that they should only do that when they're ready for the consequences that might happen when they have sex. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]2. What age are you going to let be in a relationship?[/quote] it depends if they're matured enough to know what is a relationship and how it should be. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]3. What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo?[/quote] tattoo's okay, unless the tattoo is something inappropriate at their age, and im not going to allow them to drink and smoke until they're 18, but teens these days are so stubborn, i'll just prolly tell them that whatever happens to them, its their fault. They know what's right and what's wrong. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]4. What if you caught your child smoking weeds?[/quote] REHAB!

I think I am going to be a strict parent HAHAHAHAHA. I know, I'm such a hypocrite coz I never listen to mine and strict parents usually produces the most rebellious teens but whatever. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]1. Are you going to talk to them about protective sex?[/quote] [b]Daughter:[/b] No friggin way. I'll tell her to abstain. Idk how that will work out tho since sexually active teens gets younger and younger but I will do everything in my power not to let her taste sex until she's married. [b]Son: [/b]Hell yea. I will disown him if he brings a pregnant girl home. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]2. What age are you going to let be in a relationship?[/quote] [b]Daughter:[/b] When she graduates from College. OMG. I'm so mean. Seriously tho, if she gets one when she's in highschool or College, she must let me meet the guy. [b]Son[/b]: He can get a girlfriend anytime but he must also let me meet her. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]3. What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo?[/quote] [b]Smoke:[/b] NEVER. [b]Drink: [/b]College. [b]Tattoo:[/b] None for my daughter but if she insists, I'll ask her to put it somewhere it can't be seen and it has to be smallllll. For my son, it's ok as long as it looks good on him. If not then I'll do anything to prevent him from getting a tattoo. (Yes, I'm gunna be a Spartan mummy) [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]4. What if you caught your child smoking weeds?[/quote] Let his father talk to him/her. D:

A cool but strict parent. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]1. Are you going to talk to them about protective sex?[/quote] I'm gonna talk to them about everything that sex can do. Good things and bad things. I'll be the one to educate them about the right time to have sex. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]2. What age are you going to let be in a relationship?[/quote] I won't be strict about getting into relationship. I'll just guide them how to handle a good one. If I'll stop them, they might thinking of rebelling against us. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]3. What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo?[/quote] I won't allow them to learn how to smoke as far as I can. Drink? It's fine with me. Tattoo? Fine with me too. [quote=aya;#326665;1367309450]4. What if you caught your child smoking weeds?[/quote] I'll be the one to surrender him/her to authorities. Or I'll send him/her to a rehabilitation center. I won't tolerate this issue.

[quote=aya;#327209;1367563122]I don't think you would. I wouldn't do that to my own child.[/quote] I can and I will. I already did that to one of my relatives here.

[quote=aya;#327831;1367920427]But but but but she's your child! Your own flesh and blood! And it's just weeds.[/quote] Yeah, it's just weeds. Maybe I'll send him to a rehab the first time I caught him. But the second and will be the last, it's his choice. Jail or rehab himself. [quote=aya;#327831;1367920427]Anyway, what did the authorities do to your relative? A little off topic but I'm curious.[/quote] They picked him up here in our house. And they sent him to jail. And since it's Friday night that day, no office the next day, and my cousin can't bail himself, he stayed inside the jail until Monday afternoon. And until now he's clueless that I was the one who sent him to jail. Because the police officer I called is my former 3rd year HS adviser.

1. Are you going to talk to them about protective sex? - if theyre in the right age already and if if my child is a boy. I'll let my wife do the talking for my daughter. 2. What age are you going to let be in a relationship? - 15 for my son and 20 for my daughter. 3. What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo? - i wont let them smoke and get a tattoo. 4. What if you caught your child smoking weeds? - i'll beat him. Lol

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A disciplinarian but at the same time a mother. Open and loving to her kids. [i]awww[/i] my fingers are crossed that I'll be this kind of mother Guiding Questions: (Optional) 1. Are you going to talk to them about protective sex? Yes. If they're old enough to hear it, I'm going to talk to them about it. I will also tell them about the possible consequences. However, I'm going to make sure they know what our family believes in: abstinence. I can't be a hypocrite and tell her "YOU CAN'T HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" when I didn't do it myself. So yeah, I have a role to play too. 2. What age are you going to let be in a relationship? Around 18. I really want to be open to my kids so they won't have anything to hide from me. Also, I won't even badmouth the guys/girls they like, but I want to meet them before they date, and have relationships with them so I know their personalities. 3. What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo? I won't let them smoke. They're going to grow up knowing what the consequences are and what secondhand smoking did to me. Drinking a shot or two to satisfy their curiosity is okay. Because parties at being 21 involve drinking anyways But getting drunk, I will never allow them to even come to that point. No tattoos. I don't smoke or drink and I don't intend on getting a tatt, so they should do the same. 4. What if you caught your child smoking weeds? They're gonna grow up the right way so I'm just hoping it won't get to this far If it did happen, then I'll talk to my kid about this kind of lifestyle, and encourage my kid to quit.

Honestly, I can say just whatever I want here. I can pretend I can be a really cool and awesome parent but what I really know is that I'll just end up being a strict one. I've had these parents who are very cool about anything and look what it got me, I end up raising myself. And I wouldn't want that ever to happen to my future child, because it sucks, big time. [b]#1: Are you going to talk to them about protective sex?[/b] Yes, at the right place and in the right time. I want her to realize these important things as soon as possible. But only... only if my child is too dumb to figure that having sex especially at a young age is definitely wrong and of course, unless she wants to already have a child. I'd have to spank her and maybe have her isolated if she is that kind. [b]#2: What age are you going to let be in a relationship? [/b] About this, well as long as she's smart and has got it all figured out. Any age around high school is fine with me, because I believe it's part of growing up. You gotta let them experience this, or they'll end up like one of those stupid girls in movies who are rebellious and arrogant and annoying. :l [b]#3: What age are you going to let them smoke/drink/get a tattoo?[/b] I will allow them to drink, occasionally, that's what I do. Oh and maybe let them have two or three piercings, but it shall never exceed on that. But smoking and having tattoos are definitely not possible. That's never gonna happen, child. [b]#4: What if you caught your child smoking weeds?[/b] I'm probably gonna have to shit my pants.