[quote=Tres;#373320;1383483552]Although I tried offering an explanation when I broke up with an ex. She didn't want to hear it and I felt a bit taken aback. It actually felt like my act of respect was rejected. I listened to her and didn't explain further.[/quote] Really? What was her reaction at that time? Was she shouting at you or was she indifferent? @t: yes it's necessary especially if you were friends before you got together. There are cases where despite breaking off, couples still remained as friends.