[quote=mrjpc07;#373352;1383491884]Maybe she's already expecting that breakup.. or maybe she is a daughter of a fortune-teller [/quote] Hahahaha she predicts rather well sometimes, infairness but yeah it was expected. But I needed to give her that explanation because I never gave that to my exes. And she used to be a friend (which can be related to @michiiella's and @chaw's answers [quote=michiiella;#373413;1383554238]Really? What was her reaction at that time? Was she shouting at you or was she indifferent?[/quote] Yeah.. But nahh, she's not the kind that shouts when she's upset. She wasn't indifferent, either. Her reaction was nowhere near the [i]I don't care[/i] attitude. It turned out her reason for it was answered by pareng @rph [quote=rph;#373438;1383570562]I've been on that situation for so many times. For me, a break up is the end of everything, since on my part, it was them who always initiated the break up so once they said that "Raph, let's call it quits..this isn't not working anymore". That's my cue to exit, they were trying to explain further but I refused to listen because it hurts me more and I already understand that they were not happy anymore so I let them go right away. [i]Ganun ako kadali kausap.[/i][/quote] she actually said something like that. It was something like [i]Gusto mo magbreak na tayo, okay tapos.[/i] I appreciate that part where you know when to let go. But, bro, wouldn't [i]not[/i] knowing the real reason behind it hurt more? I'm genuinely curious about that. Because if I were in your shoes, I'd lose my mind every night thinking about why she broke up with me [quote=rph;#373438;1383570562]But that's too far from reality, there are people who just don't care to give you an ending, there are people who don't want to be the reason of the ending and there are people who don't want to be tagged as the "bad guy" in the relationship that's why they chose to leave you hanging in the midair.[/quote] It's undeniable, it's hard to face someone in a confrontation when you're the one who brought it up in the first place. Some guys find it easier to escape the problem than deal with it. Besides, whether or not the guy explains, it nearly always comes to a conclusion that he's the "bad guy" when he's the one who wanted to break up