[quote=Tres;#373541;1383619329]I believe both of them. They're not always on the same side of the coin but they somehow manage to be both right. It's like being a judge watching two professional lawyers defending their clients. The only difference is, neither of them lies. They just believe in different truths, and I believe both truths. Did I make sense?[/quote] Yes you are. [quote=chaw;#373638;1383625122]Neither. I analyze both of their feelings to see the fault in their fights. But if this was about giving advice, still neither. I ask both of them and my dad may give a pessimistic advce and my mom would do so too, so I just go outside and ask people who are in the same situation I am in. My parents told me to do this and that, but I didn't listen and I am still on the good side of the road. I'm not saying I don't believe them, but that it's still my life and they are just there to guide me and help me.[/quote] you are thankful to have a good guardians both. [quote=ielle;#373648;1383637553]I believe both. Not because they are my parents. But because they have more experiences in life than me. But most of the time I believe my father more than my mother esp. now. Mom. She will tell what's on her mind. And what she believes is right. She will give practical advice because she believes practicality is the best option when deciding something. She never listen for other's opinions if she believe she is right. Dad. He is opposite of my mom. Yeah, he will give practical advice too but he will add that it's still up to me is I'll follow his advice. And he listen to other's opinions. And he will decide base on the opinions of others. That is why most of the time I believe my dad more that mom.[/quote] Well said, if that is the case. i will go both of them. because none of them is perfect, they are just want to express their opinions for us to know the right path for us.