My ideal man is the "Man to Marry" and not the "Man to Date." He's the kind of man who thinks about the future and sees me in it. He's the kind of man who works hard to keep his university grades up because he knows he'll need a job and he needs to be able to support me. And if I ever move to another country, he will encourage me to achieve my goals (definitely NOT tell me I'm bound to fail and that I'll suffer bigtime) and tell me that he'll be there waiting for me when I come back home. A guy like that is hard to find.