[quote=aya;#324794;1366602985]What if she isn't your girlfriend? What if say, you just met her and she's the one who's doing all the 'moves'. :lo3: For example, getting your number, adding you in FB and/or tries to do things for you like give you presents and stuffs.[/quote] That sounds.. clingy. At first I'm going to like it. Not necessarily call it a 'turn on' but I am definitely going to love the attention, to the point of flirting along with her. But if it kept going and the situation ends up as something like the girl is already the one wooing, it becomes a turn off.

[quote=Tres;#324466;1366433920]^glad to know we have another guy member hanging out in this thread to answer questions [/quote] Hehe I just happen to find this topic interesting [quote=aya;#324528;1366441870]Why?[/quote] For me, their aggressiveness just don't fit the girls. It just makes men want to back away from them

[quote=Tres;#324802;1366612009]But if it kept going and the situation ends up as something like the girl is already the one wooing, it becomes a turn off.[/quote] [quote=Ajcakes;#324803;1366612170]If you do all the "moves" we'd definitely love the attention. We'd flirt around and all with you all day long if we have to but if you label us your boyfriend and all, that's a turn off.[/quote] [quote=senpaimomo;#324859;1366617804]For me, their aggressiveness just don't fit the girls. It just makes men want to back away from them [/quote] [quote=bobcbar;#324880;1366629700]But in the end I would cherish the attention [/quote] Okay, what if the girl [b]isn't [/b]the one who's doing the wooing but she's 'aggressive' [b]clothes[/b] wise. Like she always wear revealing clothes (i.e. short shorts, mini skirts, blouses with low cleavages and/or baring midriffs) high heels, not exactly loud with make-up but she can't live without them.

[quote=aya;#325481;1366859080]Okay, what if the girl isn't the one who's doing the wooing but she's 'aggressive' clothes wise. Like she always wear revealing clothes (i.e. short shorts, mini skirts, blouses with low cleavages and/or baring midriffs) high heels, not exactly loud with make-up but she can't live without them.[/quote] Would make me horny but really not someone that I would be willing to attach myself to

[quote=Tres;#325500;1366871279]If she's aggressive and attractive at the same time, then it's a turn-on. But mostly that's just the male hormones speaking for us (note: it's hard to be polite or gentleman around girls like this, mind you).[/quote] [quote=senpaimomo;#325636;1366901641]Still, I would like a girl that is conservative. That makes the girl more beautiful to me. Optional if she has make up and a nice one but not necessary.[/quote] [quote=bobcbar;#325534;1366885204]Would make me horny but really not someone that I would be willing to attach myself to [/quote] And what if she becomes your girlfriend? [b]Situation:[/b] She was irresistible, you fell for each other, the two of you kissed and then voila! You're in an official relationship. A. Are you going to ask her to change the way she dress? B. You won't change anything. You're proud of your sexy girlfriend who likes showing off some skin.

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[quote=aya;#325686;1366941395]And what if she becomes your girlfriend? Situation: She was irresistible, you fell for each other, the two of you kissed and then voila! You're in an official relationship. A. Are you going to ask her to change the way she dress? B. You won't change anything. You're proud of your sexy girlfriend who likes showing off some skin.[/quote] Well, this is difficult. If [b]SOME[/b] you mean like her legs, shoulder, slender arms (I'm a sucker for this ) then it's fine. But other than that, I might as well ask her if she can change but I'm not forcing her to do it. We are just men, we have our weaknesses especially in the girls.

[quote=aya;#325686;1366941395]And what if she becomes your girlfriend? [b]Situation:[/b] She was irresistible, you fell for each other, the two of you kissed and then voila! You're in an official relationship. A. Are you going to ask her to change the way she dress? B. You won't change anything. You're proud of your sexy girlfriend who likes showing off some skin.[/quote] A little bit of both. But I'm actually the type who likes to limit the way my girlfriend dresses. For example, really low necklines, really short skirts. This is a gesture that girls might think as.. you know, a sign of being over-possessive. In some angles, it is. But mainly it's because I tend to ogle at girls that wear revealing clothes (and sometimes get a little lust-driven), and I don't want other guys to have dirty thoughts about my girlfriend too. (Although choice A doesn't always head to a good result) But, if that's how she really wants to dress, then I'll have to back down and understand her.

[quote=aya;#325951;1367015514]So you won't break up with her and just put up with it? [/quote] There's no way I'm going to break up with her just because of that it's not that big a deal.

[quote=aya;#325951;1367015514]What if she doesn't want to change and like Tres said, she thinks you're being over-possessive. Would you break up with her? She's a great gf tho, and the only problem with her is the way she dresses. [/quote] Well, like I said, I'm not forcing her. Just for her protection. I just don't want any guys looking and having [b]plans[/b] about my girlfriend. If she can limit it and only wear it in special occasions, then it's fine. She will understand why am I behaving to her like that. Heck no, just for the clothes, it's not a big problem.

[quote=sj0405;#329205;1369104076]Is it really ok for your girlfriend to have boys as friends that she hangs with[/quote] Yes..well except for you