[quote=bobcbar;#261745;1343804494]you want him to own you? You might be treated like a slave or worse[/quote] It shud be the opposite! , thats why i want him to do everythinggggg.. like everything i want! [quote=strikerno14;#262809;1343895036]Scenario, Two guys decide to court you at the same time, one's a hot guy and one's a nerdy guy. They both court you and you (the girl) knows nothing about the guy except that the they're both sweet and kind and that the other one is hot, and the other is not. Again, you know nothing of their real personalities, maybe both of them are really good guys or maybe both of them are assholes. Which would you choose? Of course the hot guy, that's common sense. Plus, all girls are a bit shallow, they say they aren't but they are.[/quote] Like all the answers above, i would choose after getting to know them. I mean, i wouldnt say yes to a perfectly random stranger, let alone two right? What do u think? In the process of courting me, I HAVE to get to know them so i can decide. Having a partner isn't thru physical characteristics, its true his personality and his attitude. I mean, hello don't come clean, any guy wud choose a girl with hot bod and big boobies over a simple girl who isnt that pretty? So if u think girls are shallow, dont come clean. And typically, those type of guys are hot guys,like i said, SOME hot guys turn into basterds in the end, again..not generalizing guys okay?.. But why do u think jocks always choose cheerleaders for their girlfriends rather than a normal girl classmate? If there both sweet and kind, then theres one way or another that the other one is more better than the other. And that's what i have to discover for me to choose. So no, girls are not shallow to choose a jock over a nerd, if u had an experience like that (again IF), then that girl, well.. is not like the rest of us.