I realized I'm the kind of friend who will smack you if you ask me too often to help you... once is enough. I don't like the idea of spoon-feeding people when I myself wasn't given the chance to be spoon fed, I do things of my own accord without needing any help from others so if you can't be that, then you can't sit with us. I'm frank in rl, I will say whatever needs to be said... especially when I'm in a very bad mood. I don't care of other people's feelings other than my own, I realized I don't have the time to deal with anyone's emotion when I myself is fighting a battle of my own.