What do you see?? [quote=chaw;#417441;1402388940]No i meant in general would You rather be "sus nanliligaw kapa eh gusto na nga kita!"? [/quote] I prefer not to do the whole courtship thing. I want it to be spontaneous like there's already an existing attraction between the two of us like I like him and he likes me but no one's admitting to anything yet. The kind of situation where he's nice to me, willing to do stuff for me but doesn't really say he's courting me so I be like on my toes all the time, always guessing if he's rly into me or not. It goes on like that until someone finally tips over and admit their feelings. (Kakakilig diba? HAHAHAHA) In general, girls like to be courted. I think courtship is a form of flattery and girls love, love getting flattered ofc. In courtship, the girl automatically assumes "Oh he loves me, I win!" so where's the fun in that? It's like the guy is just waiting for you to say 'yes'. So while the guy is at his wit's end thinking whether you already love him or what, you're taking it easy and playing hard to get while picking the perfect date on your calendar for the best day to celebrate your monthsary "3? 26? ohhh 8 is lucky". What if you don't really like the guy? Dumping him will make you feel guilty because what if he already invested a lot? What if you feel obligated to like him back just because he gave you expensive presents? So no to courtship, yes to spontaneity!!!

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