[quote=bobcbar;#66658;1336780112]It works..if as a couple you make it work..I married my LDR that lasted for almost 5 years before we married[/quote]
this inspires me
im in a long distance for 6 months.
it is really hard but everytime we see each other its really worth it.
it sepends on the couple how to work it out.
it really requires lots of patience and trust.
always remember DISTANCE IS NOT A HINDRANCE TO YOUR LOVE STORY
and if you and the person you love will make it up to the end I therefore believe that everything will be worth it
^ hahahaha!!
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(Online) LDR do not usually work.
Why?
-s/he lives on the other side of the planet. (solution: one of you should be loaded)
-you two were able to meet but s/he wasn't what you were expecting to be like. (solution: lower your expectations)
-no physical contact (solution: be creative... if u know what i mean)
-someone near is flirting with you (solution: don't be a man/whore)
-requires more patience and trust (solution: endure;do not fight over trivial things)
If s/he's too good to be true then s/he probably is. anyone could be anybody on the internet.
Many ldr do not work because it's impossible from the very start. Learn to assess the situation before entering an ldr relationship.
[quote=MsMaria;#149;1335473412]Who said that LDR won't work?[/quote]
Me.
Been there and it didn't work on [s]us[/s] me.
If one of you is not as committed as the other, then don't expect a happy ending (just like to any other types of relationship).
ldr works, for a couple of months or so.. but then after that, people will get tired and will always find a way to satisfy themselves. but of course not unless if you're really super in love, and you're both happy and mature.
Long distance relationship is one of the toughest relationship you need to handle.
You should have a loyal boyfriend and an understanding girlfriend.
Transparency is a necessity. Communication should be everyday....
Hard as it seems but if two persons really love each other, they will find ways to conquer loneliness without cheating
Blech. Y'all, it is just SOOOO hard, and exhausting. And it's heartbreaking because you get consumed by your own emotions and you put all your hopes into it, only to wake up to the reality that it's never gonna work.
I risked two years but it's okay. I learned a lot of things. I wasn't wise and I definitely didn't listen to those who advised me.
[quote=theblottedmystery;#355437;1377497613]Long distance relationship is one of the toughest relationship you need to handle.
You should have a loyal boyfriend and an understanding girlfriend.
Transparency is a necessity. Communication should be everyday....
Hard as it seems but if two persons really love each other, they will find ways to conquer loneliness without cheating[/quote]
LDR is just so hard to maintain, yanno. I'd say it depends in your age, if you're a tween and you have ldr's then there's a huge probability it won't work bc eh. But if you're mature enough to handle the relationship then yes, it's possible. It will be hard. . . but it's gonna be worth it in the end.
It's frustrating and you must have lots and lots of patience, understanding and trust. My partner and I have been going through a lot for the past few months and it's not always about rainbows and unicorns but somehow we still manage to work things out.
Hard as F. That's how I describe it.
Just make sure there is actually a way for the two of you to meet before you even enter into a relationship. Nobody wants to be treated like a desperated bull.