[quote=Tres;#391082;1396506250]I went on a date with someone else for Valentine's Day last year. I've never been more ashamed of my actions.[/quote] with whom? and why did you do that? [quote=Tres;#391082;1396506250]That's why there's a cool-off, right? The relationship isn't working so there's got to be some space. For both parties to figure out what they really want. It also gets rid of the tension eh, or pressure. I think it's an advantage. I mean, yung mga couples na nagkabalikan, I think they have an advantage where they already know which mistakes to avoid doing before they let history repeat itself. I think breakups make us more mature. It's just that, it's not always that case[/quote] I do not believe in cool offs well that's me though. i dont know.. I believe that if you want this thing, you should take good care of it no matter how hard it gets. And if you let go of it, you shouldnt say "i should get it back" because.. in the first place, y did you let go of that thing if you want it back afterwards? You can be mature without even breaking up.. like, dont meet your bf/gf for like one week or so?.. then think. and tell him what you want, he/she will surely understand. You're sweet pala. Lucky that derpy friendzoner of yours. but, im just kinda curious why you did this: I went on a date with someone else for Valentine's Day last year. I've never been more ashamed of my actions.