[quote=ielle;#336171;1371476860]Guys out there! Is it a big dealfor you if the woman you wanna court is older than you [like 4-9 years age gap]?[/quote] It [i]was[/i]. I've always had a thing for girls my age. But this girl I like is 4 years older than me, so I don't think it's that big a deal anymore. There's a first time for everything

@Tres and Sir @bobcbar so older girl is not a big deal to you if you really like the girl? Thanks for answering. I'm a bit frustrated in this issue right now.

For straight guys: Have you ever, for the briefest moment, considered what it would feel like to be attracted to guys yourselves?

how long does it averagely take you to woo or court a girl?

[quote=bubblegum;#338873;1372664336]For straight guys: Have you ever, for the briefest moment, considered what it would feel like to be attracted to guys yourselves?[/quote] I haven't. Not really. I'm easily curious but not [i]that[/i] curious to have myself question my sexuality [quote=Pepper;#338899;1372667903]how long does it averagely take you to woo or court a girl? [/quote] it depends. it's hard to give a direct answer to your question because the courtship timespan between my exes are diverse the longest was 8 months and the shortest was 2 weeks.

hmm, i'm not sure about the others. but based on my experience, i stop when the girl doesnt show me enough interest or when i start to find her annoying or when i find someone better or more challenging to woo. the last one sounds douchey, i'm sorry but i think my reasons were just because all the girls i ever wooed were strangers. you know, pursue her [i]before[/i] getting to know her. i don't know what would make a guy stop from wooing a [i]friend[/i] because i've only experienced it once and i'm still with her. maybe the other guys in here can answer that for you

[quote=michiiella;#338971;1372682558]I'm curious, what makes guys stop wooing a girl?[/quote] We feels if the girl is not really into it.. or not interested to us.. that makes us stop courting sometimes.. but other men really eager to pursue..

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[quote=Tres;#338990;1372683954]but based on my experience, i stop when the girl doesnt show me enough interest or when i start to find her annoying or when i find someone better or more challenging to woo.[/quote] when do you find a girl annoying in the time of courtship? what is 'challenging' for you guys?

[quote=Pepper;#339465;1373000981]when do you find a girl annoying in the time of courtship? what is 'challenging' for you guys?[/quote] just like what sir bob said, it's when the girl's getting too clingy than she should be. or too demanding, or too moody when she hasn't even given me her yes. that makes me think she's going to be worse than that when we're together What's challenging for me.. well see my answer to bubblegum's question below [quote=bubblegum;#339439;1372987862]What if the girl is just being pakipot? some girls are like that. *ehem* [/quote] those are the best kind. for me at least. there are just times when we can tell when a girl's being hard-to-get or when she doesn't really like us. If the girl's just being hard-to-get, then nice. It's more exciting, and it makes me work for it. Like really do the effort. Hard-to-get girls help me do my part as the suitor

[quote=aya;#339638;1373055992]Easy to get, easy to forget.[/quote] That's me