[quote=ECKAdoodles;#333515;1370395782]woow. well, I do hope all guys will do the same thing or somehow have same kind of thinking. @T: Is it a must for a girl to update his boyfriend of his everyday activities? Like on where will she go or what she'll do for the day? Will it make you mad if she has gone some place without telling you?[/quote] most guys think like this too, but refuse to do it. Pride could get in the way too It's not a must. I don't want my girlfriend to feel obligated into informing me everything that happens in her life. I make that [i]her[/i] choice. Besides, getting an update from a girlfriend about her activities can be kind of.. annoying when overdone at least tell the boyfriend something he can have a response to. Okay so my answer has an exception: when a past lover or a potential lover is involved. If she's going out with an ex, or a guy who has a crush on her or vice versa, then I'd want to know about it. [quote=aya;#333539;1370408433]Nice answer. Although what if your crush makes you feel [i]kilig[/i] talga. And your girlfriend is a really good girlfriend but she's not as exciting as your crush. Still not gunna cheat?[/quote] I had a history like this, from six years ago. Not proud of it (partly because of the karma in a later relationship in the same year) and I like to think I'm a changed man now and I'm not getting myself involved into third parties again. Answering your question, I'd probably be tempted to cheat, but not give in to it because, quote and quote, "really good girlfriend." That's someone who doesn't deserve to be cheated on. However, I'd sort it out with the girlfriend. Because a relationship needs to be exciting, right? I mean if it's not, then aren't you going to wonder whether or not there's something wrong with the relationship? Assuming it ends up in a breakup, I'd give it time before I try pursuing the crush. [quote=yunish;#333522;1370397029]What signals do you send when you're "off" w/ doing it w/ your girlfriend??[/quote] Wait what? What did you mean by this, Eunice? [quote=bubblegum;#333544;1370414240]woooh makasagot hahahaha loverboy si Tres [/quote] HAHAHAHAHAHAAHA Hindi po, goodboy po. (is there an angel emoticon? if there's none then *insert angel emoticon here*)

[quote=Tres;#333702;1370495298]Wait what? What did you mean by this, Eunice?[/quote] hahaha you should know!! [quote=aya;#333782;1370515517]But really, there are lots of jerks out there and I've been wondering why they're such assholes to women. Imagine, when their gf catches them cheating, sila pa galit! And when the girl nags him for cheating on her, the guy would even say sth like "Are you done? I still have sth to do." Wow. Just wow.[/quote] Ohhh god these guys are really not worth staying for.

[quote=Tres;#333943;1370579055]so to all my fellow male species, treat your girl right. if she doesn't treat you right, break up with her but treat her right. at least think about how women are invisible to the world, and then start thinking that you, of all people, should help change that and treat her right because you can see her like how you can see yourself on the mirror. you don't get an award for being an asshole, much less for thinking you're any more important than your girl.[/quote]

[quote=Tres;#333943;1370579055]i have an idea but i'm not sure if you meant "off" in a good way or bad way![/quote] it depends on your interpretation... so lemme repeat the question [i]nalang[/i]. hahaha What signals do you send when you're "[i]off[/i]" w/ [i]having sex/making love[/i] w/ your girlfriend?? Off may mean you're just not in the mood, you're too tired, or you just don't like her anymore, you're already bored, whatever.

[quote=ECKAdoodles;#334004;1370609928]what was your indication or like a hint that will make realize you are already in love with someone?[/quote] okay this is hard i don't really know. there's not like a definite hint to it or something. i guess it just depends on the individual. in my case though, i'm going to limit it to.. uhm, she's been a constant in my mind; she makes me the happiest; and she still does even after couples of months. i don't know, i think you'd just know [quote=yunish;#334138;1370665380]What signals do you send when you're "off" w/ having sex/making love w/ your girlfriend?? Off may mean you're just not in the mood, you're too tired, or you just don't like her anymore, you're already bored, whatever.[/quote] okay i thought what you meant by "off" was something like, "i'm ready." you know, when we say "i'm off to *insert place here* hahahahahahahahahahahaha this is an awkward question. it's pretty obvious when i'm not in the mood, so i don't have to send her signals or any of the sort for her to know i'm not in the mood. but guys are rarely not in the mood when it comes to sex okay [quote=aya;#334140;1370666300]So what happened? Who told you not to be a jerk to girls anymore?[/quote] well i wasn't literally told. i just had this girlfriend when I was 15 and we dated for almost 2 years and it was a rollercoaster. like we're always on-and-off. i guess i learned a lot in that point of my life

[quote=yunish;#334185;1370687499]what signals do you send when you're "ready" to do it w/ her? and do you get disappointed if she's being a tease yet she doesn't agree yet to do it w/ you?[/quote] i tease i touch and kiss her more than usual. there isn't a certain signal or something, i guess it just hits you. no i wont get disappointed because (1) i like it when girls tease, (2) it's her right to say "no," (3) i'm pretty much willing to wait.

[quote=aya;#335074;1371015745]Were you in a rush to lose your virginity?[/quote] Nope. Not really. I like sex but if the girl says no, then it's a no.

[quote=aya;#335074;1371015745]Were you in a rush to lose your virginity?[/quote] Were all in a rush.. Most of the guys lost their virginity in their own hands ?!

[quote=aya;#336113;1371454133]Girls who are good in cooking[/quote] Girls who are good in cooking

Guys out there! Is it a big dealfor you if the woman you wanna court is older than you [like 4-9 years age gap]?