[quote=Tres;#333702;1370495298]I had a history like this, from six years ago. Not proud of it (partly because of the karma in a later relationship in the same year) and I like to think I'm a changed man now and I'm not getting myself involved into third parties again. Answering your question, I'd probably be tempted to cheat, but not give in to it because, quote and quote, "really good girlfriend." That's someone who doesn't deserve to be cheated on. However, I'd sort it out with the girlfriend. Because a relationship needs to be exciting, right? I mean if it's not, then aren't you going to wonder whether or not there's something wrong with the relationship? Assuming it ends up in a breakup, I'd give it time before I try pursuing the crush. [/quote] Wow. Getting answers like this makes me wonder why most guys out there don't think the same way. What [i]is[/i] WRONG with them? Just recently, I have two friends who were asking me for some advice and I've just been saying "Break up with him/Forget about him" over and over. But really, there are lots of jerks out there and I've been wondering why they're such assholes to women. Imagine, when their gf catches them cheating, [i]sila pa galit[/i]! And when the girl nags him for cheating on her, the guy would even say sth like "Are you done? I still have sth to do." Wow. Just wow. So uhm basically, you're one of the "good" guys. My question is, what can you say about the other guys out there who do not treat their gf right.