[quote=aya;#339711;1373109052]I beg to diffarrrr. [i]Pakipot[/i] girls are the kind of women who likes to toy around with their suitors. [/quote] I have courted that kind of girl and it went on for months, almost a year even, and she didn't say yes in the end (for the sole reason of her rejection of commitment) so I'm going to have to agree on that, 50% [quote=aya;#339711;1373109052]If I were a guy, I'd hate girls who are hard to get. If they like/love me why waste time playing hard to get when they can date me asap? [/quote] [quote=bobcbar;#339776;1373194305]That's so true...I think most guys feel the same way [/quote] well then I'm going to speak for the guys who like [i]pakipot[/i] girls but you said it, aya, [i]Easy to get, easy to forget.[/i] I think what drives us is the thought that this girl is willing to waste time just so we could show them that we're worth it; to show that they're not desperate for the title or something like that; and to hint that they want to see us do the effort. It's also an advantage when I want to know the girl more in the process of courtship. Like what if she's super duper clingy and crazy and she said yes three days into the courtship stage.. it's smothering and I don't want to suffer under the problem of how am I going to break up with her

[quote=aya;#339817;1373227535]Pft. You kept it up for almost a year and she never asked you to stop? Make it 80% geez. Or are you perhaps the masochistic type? [/quote] I really liked her! And can you blame me? I've wasted a lot of effort and money on that girl She never asked me to stop because she liked the idea of courting and we were already going out like we're already dating. But actually we're not. I stopped courting her one summer and then around four months after, she went after me herself. [quote=aya;#339817;1373227535]No, no, no. They're "waiting" because they are playing with your mind. They wanna drive you crazy.... they're evil. Trust me, I'm a girl HAHAHAHAHAHA.[/quote] I trust you! But you see, every yin has a yang. The girl I'm talking about there ^ belongs to this category of girls, thus the 50%. [quote=aya;#339817;1373227535]You are probably mistaking girls who are genuinely unsure whether they love you or not (thus withholding answer) from pakipot girls. Pakipot girls are the ones who are adi sure they like/love you but tries to delay giving their answer coz they wanna see you suffer... or because you're like an ego fodder or sth. [/quote] Bingo on the ego fodder but still! Okay let's put it this way and I hope I'm not romanticizing the female race. Wouldn't you be [i]pakipot[/i] if you already like the guy, yeah, but hasn't seen his effort yet? I mean, aren't there any girls who play [i]pakipot[/i] because they're not sure if it's the right thing to fall for our courtship? (HAHAHAHAHAHA i like the complexities of females okay ) Then there are also these [i]pakipot[/i] girls you just mentioned who are evil. I like to see it as your game of [i]cat and mouse[/i] chase, not your way of making us suffer And we sometimes fall for that chase. Playing coy can be cute sometimes. But please, not too much! [quote=aya;#339817;1373227535]What the hell are you saying?! A guy courts a girl in the first place coz [b]he wants to date her[/b] regardless whether he knows her or not. So it's not her fault if she said yes even if it has only been say, 3 days. You did court her.[/quote] It's not her fault, that is the point! aya you know my weakness is girls. hahahahahahaha we make mistakes in the girls we woo, so if the girl already declared that we're official before I even get to realize that I'm wooing the wrong girl, well that could be a dilemma. [quote=aya;#339817;1373227535]Say "SHIAT. WHAT R YOO DOING? Y U SAID YES SO SOON?? I AM SO NOT READY!! STAHHHP!!" Do you understand how ridiculous this sounds? [/quote] Saying that to a girl, dear Hazel, would be a bruise to my ego. In the sense that I'm going to live thinking, "wow I'm not ready? Nope, I'm [i]always[/i] ready for everything." I do understand how ridiculous this sounds HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA but this is fun okay?! [quote=aya;#339817;1373227535]I was a guy in my previous life. [/quote] Damn I would've wanted you to be mahhh broooo

OT: I always skip reading tres' posts. It's too effin long. hahaha

[quote=aya;#339937;1373284328]Oh please, if you already love the guy as if you'd still care about his effort and whatnot. I'm sure you've already decided to date him but you still wanna make him run the extra mile because it makes you feel good. The only reason why girls play hard to get is because nag papayummy sila.[/quote] Of course i care about his effort because my indecisiveness would be totally wiped out once I see how sincere his intentions are. Even if I love the guy, if he's not that sincere (he wants to be my boyfriend cause he knows i like him very much and it's an ego boost on him) i'm gonna have doubts and i will not delve in a relationship which i'm not sure will last.

[quote=bubblegum;#339987;1373339344]Of course i care about his effort because my indecisiveness would be totally wiped out once I see how sincere his intentions are.[/quote] It might help you decide whether you really want to date him or not but the thing is, this "sincerity" you're looking for during courtship does not determine whether your relationship with him will succeed or fail. I've seen guys who were so good in wooing but failed to deliver when it really matters. [quote=bubblegum;#339987;1373339344]Even if I love the guy, if he's not that sincere (he wants to be my boyfriend cause he knows i like him very much and it's an ego boost on him) i'm gonna have doubts and i will not delve in a relationship which i'm not sure will last.[/quote] That's being [i]pakipot.[/i] True. But in your case, it's like he's only asking you to be his gf just because he knows you like him...? and that's different from what I'm talking about which is --------- > guys who are in love with a girl who's playing hard to get. But nweiz, I'm gunna give my two cents about your dilemma. You can either reject him since you're being way pessimistic (you're already thinking about breaking up which is sad), or just give in to whatever makes you happy, pray for the best and hope your relationship will last until the end of time. Shit happens but that's okay coz it's not the end of the world and you're gunna fall inlove again. It's a vicious cycle but we can only find the one for us if we let ourselves fall. [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]I can't freakin play this video because of my slow internet connection but what the hell, Hazel?!? HAHAHAHAHA[/quote] It's that old song ,[url=http://tagaloglang.com/Filipino-Music/Pop-Songs/hahabul-habol-o-ang-babae.html]O ang babae[/url]. That girl is a classic example. [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]Like, in my opinion all the pakipot girls do the same thing (pretending they're not interested), but they don't all do it for the same reason.[/quote] One and three sounds the same to me. Two is....fuck, I don't understand what you meant by #2. What the hell is bite into the potential of the relationship??? HAHAHAHA [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]Because I never fall and never wanted to fall for a friend.. until I met my current girlfriend (hiyawan! )[/quote] Er... You're only proving my point. [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]Flirt and win the prize. [/quote] And just a few posts back you were saying sth like you're not even sure if you really want the prize?

[quote=Tres;#340229;1373417055]it doesn't sound the same to me! #1 is pure evil like you mentioned; the ones who have the instinct to make a guy suffer #3 is just plain.. landi.[/quote] But it really sounds the same to me! I mean, you said so yourself, #1 means "the cat and mouse chase" wherein the girl acts "coy" as you put it. Isn't that like #3? Because acting coy is under [i]lampungan[/i] or sth. HAHAHAHA. [quote=Tres;#340229;1373417055]What I meant by #2 was, for example okay Girl likes Guy. Guy woos Girl. Girl sees Guy's effort. But Guy has history of third parties or anything of that sort. What is Girl going to do? She already likes the guy, but she's pretending she isn't because she doesn't wanna admit that she likes a guy with that history [/quote] Say for example, you're this guy who had a history of two timing. The girl you like knows of your philandering activities and refuses to admit that she loves you because of that. Would you really consider that as someone who's [i]playing[/i] hard to get? [quote=Tres;#340229;1373417055]I don't use friendship with a girl to my advantage; thus the "pursue before get-to-know" thing and that's why I tried to make this point:[/quote] I think we're going around in circles here? HAHHAHAHAHAHAHA Anyway, if you were aware that you might actually be wooing the wrong girl, why is it your [i]diskarte[/i] [b]was[/b] "pursue before geting to know the girl"? (O there, past tense [i]na[/i] HAHAHAHA) [quote=Tres;#340229;1373417055]The not sure part happens when.. the guy's a few days into the courtship. When he's starting to see the girl's traits he doesn't like. [/quote] Are you saying,you're one of those guys who court girls because of their looks? And then when you realize she's a bitch you go, " Oopsy. Wrong girl". Earlier I said "And just a few posts back you were saying sth like you're not even sure if you really want the prize?" What I meant by that was "it was the wrong girl, would you still call it a prize?" Er.. but I'm guessing you'd say yes because: v v v [quote=Tres;#340229;1373417055]"Flirt and win the prize" is the initial goal. This is the first impression, the motivation guys (not all of us though) use to drive them into wooing the girl. Don't you know any guy in real life who woo just so they can have a girlfriend they can flaunt to their friends?[/quote] I'm going back to the girls team. You guys are evil too. [hr][hr][hr] [b]New question:[/b] How long do you guys wait before push the idea of having sex for the first time to your girlfriend?

[quote=Tres;#340306;1373443960]Okay, I got nothing. HHAHAHAHAHAHA[/quote] I thought so. [quote=Tres;#340306;1373443960]I give it at least two months.. subtly [/quote] How do you tell her you want to have sex?

[quote=aya;#340380;1373461326]How do you tell her you want to have sex?[/quote] I'm going to play my MOMOL Playlist

[quote=rph;#340414;1373466709]I'm going to play my MOMOL Playlist [/quote] This is helpful too [quote=aya;#340429;1373474923]Is it bad if your gf would be the one who'll initiate love making? xDDDD kyaa kyaa~ HAHAHHA.[/quote] Nahh it's not bad. I'd love it even HAHAHAHAHAHHA in contrast to our pakipot girls debate, my girlfriend shouldn't be pakipot especially about this. Tease me!

[quote=chaw;#340638;1373594345]Why do guys get scared/disgusted when they see girls' pubes/hair (pits/legs/vaginal area)? I dont get it. Even men have pubes.... Is it just society's standards? or this all depends on the person (personal taste )?[/quote] it must have been those jap movies .. .. first there's hair,, then crawling stuff..then some weird a*$ girl comes out .. so yah.. that must be it ... Hair = nasty

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