[quote=bubblegum;#339987;1373339344]Of course i care about his effort because my indecisiveness would be totally wiped out once I see how sincere his intentions are.[/quote] It might help you decide whether you really want to date him or not but the thing is, this "sincerity" you're looking for during courtship does not determine whether your relationship with him will succeed or fail. I've seen guys who were so good in wooing but failed to deliver when it really matters. [quote=bubblegum;#339987;1373339344]Even if I love the guy, if he's not that sincere (he wants to be my boyfriend cause he knows i like him very much and it's an ego boost on him) i'm gonna have doubts and i will not delve in a relationship which i'm not sure will last.[/quote] That's being [i]pakipot.[/i] True. But in your case, it's like he's only asking you to be his gf just because he knows you like him...? and that's different from what I'm talking about which is --------- > guys who are in love with a girl who's playing hard to get. But nweiz, I'm gunna give my two cents about your dilemma. You can either reject him since you're being way pessimistic (you're already thinking about breaking up which is sad), or just give in to whatever makes you happy, pray for the best and hope your relationship will last until the end of time. Shit happens but that's okay coz it's not the end of the world and you're gunna fall inlove again. It's a vicious cycle but we can only find the one for us if we let ourselves fall. [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]I can't freakin play this video because of my slow internet connection but what the hell, Hazel?!? HAHAHAHAHA[/quote] It's that old song ,[url=http://tagaloglang.com/Filipino-Music/Pop-Songs/hahabul-habol-o-ang-babae.html]O ang babae[/url]. That girl is a classic example. [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]Like, in my opinion all the pakipot girls do the same thing (pretending they're not interested), but they don't all do it for the same reason.[/quote] One and three sounds the same to me. Two is....fuck, I don't understand what you meant by #2. What the hell is bite into the potential of the relationship??? HAHAHAHA [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]Because I never fall and never wanted to fall for a friend.. until I met my current girlfriend (hiyawan! )[/quote] Er... You're only proving my point. [quote=Tres;#340166;1373383242]Flirt and win the prize. [/quote] And just a few posts back you were saying sth like you're not even sure if you really want the prize?