[quote=aya;#333782;1370515517]Wow. Getting answers like this makes me wonder why most guys out there don't think the same way. What is WRONG with them? Just recently, I have two friends who were asking me for some advice and I've just been saying "Break up with him/Forget about him" over and over. But really, there are lots of jerks out there and I've been wondering why they're such assholes to women. Imagine, when their gf catches them cheating, sila pa galit! And when the girl nags him for cheating on her, the guy would even say sth like "Are you done? I still have sth to do." Wow. Just wow. So uhm basically, you're one of the "good" guys. My question is, what can you say about the other guys out there who do not treat their gf right.[/quote] you know that's actually the most straightforward answer I've ever known. most straightforward, and probably one of the most helpful ones he's angry, 'cause he's caught cheating! that's the guy's temper acting up on him. he doesn't want to admit that it's his fault, so what i can say about them.. well i'm not gunna shun them or be ashamed of them because i was from that stage. i just hope they find someone or get to a turning point where they'd want to change from the douchebag they used to be. don't put pride above anything else because it's a home-wrecker. it's not that hard 'cause that's what happened to me and it's like a load was taken off my shoulders. if i could though, i would apologize to all the hurt girls on their behalf.. so to all my fellow male species, treat your girl right. if she doesn't treat you right, break up with her but treat her right. at least think about how women are invisible to the world, and then start thinking that you, of all people, should help change that and treat her right because you can see her like how you can see yourself on the mirror. you don't get an award for being an asshole, much less for thinking you're any more important than your girl. [quote=yunish;#333823;1370531635]hahaha you should know!![/quote] i have an idea but i'm not sure if you meant "off" in a good way or bad way!