[quote=ECKAdoodles;#334004;1370609928]what was your indication or like a hint that will make realize you are already in love with someone?[/quote] okay this is hard i don't really know. there's not like a definite hint to it or something. i guess it just depends on the individual. in my case though, i'm going to limit it to.. uhm, she's been a constant in my mind; she makes me the happiest; and she still does even after couples of months. i don't know, i think you'd just know [quote=yunish;#334138;1370665380]What signals do you send when you're "off" w/ having sex/making love w/ your girlfriend?? Off may mean you're just not in the mood, you're too tired, or you just don't like her anymore, you're already bored, whatever.[/quote] okay i thought what you meant by "off" was something like, "i'm ready." you know, when we say "i'm off to *insert place here* hahahahahahahahahahahaha this is an awkward question. it's pretty obvious when i'm not in the mood, so i don't have to send her signals or any of the sort for her to know i'm not in the mood. but guys are rarely not in the mood when it comes to sex okay [quote=aya;#334140;1370666300]So what happened? Who told you not to be a jerk to girls anymore?[/quote] well i wasn't literally told. i just had this girlfriend when I was 15 and we dated for almost 2 years and it was a rollercoaster. like we're always on-and-off. i guess i learned a lot in that point of my life