[quote=bobcbar;#327300;1367578919]s it really ok for your boyfriend to have girls as friends that he hangs with?[/quote] Not a big deal for me. But still, I want him to tell me that he's hanging out with a girl. I got mad when I found out that my boyf went out with a girl that irritates me! She's a pain in the *** because we (my group) had issues towards her being the *boyf snatcher*, so I guess it's fine with me until they don't do something bad and it's just for a friendship thing. [quote=yunish;#327344;1367595157]So bottom line, it's okay for me that my boyfie to hang out w/ some girls, as long as he respects the boundary/limit I am setting between them. I don't intend to be controlling, though somehow that's what my actions/"needs" imply.[/quote] This.