[quote=rph;#361318;1378525818]This is one thing I hate about these "pseudo-relationships" nowadays, you didn't plan to fall yet you already fell without knowing it. Anyways, maybe he already has a feeling for you and his avoidance was his way to keep himself from hurting any further. And if I were him, I would do the same. I wouldn't waste my time and invest emotions to people who still carry their emotional baggage up to the present.[/quote] You mean.. he did already fall? Truth is I don't know. He never really confessed his feelings to me. I never did too. It just shows on the way we act, the way we talk to each other. Those cheesiness. Carrying my bag. Preparing my food. Taking stolen shots of me. Putting his towel on my head when it rained. Hugging me secretly. Those crazy stuffs he do to make me smile ( because most of the times I feel quiet and out of this world because I miss the guy in my wallpaper, like I sit in the corner but he'll sit there and grab me then do some stupid silly things to make me smile. ) I never said that I like him. Maybe because I am scared..no I mean he never said he likes me, so I won't say it. I admit it. I'm a tough girl but when it comes to things like this, I feel so damn scared. Scared of getting hurt again. [quote=Pawws;#361322;1378528295]Maybe the guy sees how you're still so affected with your past relationship, and he doesn't like the idea. Maybe if you really like him you should start by deleting that picture of the one who left you and focus more on the new guy.[/quote] I'm quite uncertain about the 'focus on him' thingy. I don't even know if the jerk likes me. [quote=Pawws;#361322;1378528295]Or maybe you just miss the attention the guys give you.[/quote] Yes I do miss him. His craziness and everything. [quote=Tres;#361323;1378529701]What would you feel if the guy you like is still hungover from his previous lover/relationship? Wouldn't you doubt his attention and intentions to you? Wouldn't you hesitate acting on the attraction he seems to return? Wouldn't you start wondering how in the world does he still have his ex as his wallpaper? Wouldn't you feel like a rebound?[/quote] That would hurt. But as a guy, you should confess your feelings first right? But fyi . the guy is an NGSB . He never had a girlfriend before. Whenever he tries to court a girl he likes, the girl has a boyfriend. He's been hurt several times. He once admitted to me that he thinks every girl is 'paasa' , 'timer' and loves putting guys in the 'friendzone'. (not knowing he too, brought us in the same situation. ) I never had a boyfriend before too. The guy on my wallpaper is my suitor for two years. I loved him but everything forbids us to be together. I've been hurt a lot of times too. and I must admit, though I have so many guy friends That could be the reason why we are coward . [quote=Tres;#361323;1378529701]Now since you know how terrible it is to get hurt, and how insulting it is to be the possible "rebound" what would you do? You'd avoid him before any sort of affection comes into a deeper level, right? Imagine the guy feeling all that ^ Those are most likely why he's avoiding you.[/quote] Yes, me too . I'm scared to fall for him. He's too easy to fall in love with. But I know he would be so hard to forget. There are a bunch of girls who like him, I don't think he knows that. Now, he's entering the showbiz world, I think it'll be harder . Right? It just pains me to know that after having so much memories with that guy we suddenly became ultimate strangers. I hate it when I walk past him and I can't even look him in the eye. I hate it when there is an empty chair beside me and he sits somewhere else. I hate it when he comes to work and looks at me and when I catch him he would look away. I hate to see his face so down. I'm affected and I cannot explain why . I'm not certain of what I feel about him but this time, I feel so lonely without him . Until I see his posts, I really don't know if it's for me but .... it struck me straight to my heart. [spoiler][url=http://cosmopic.com/585v2807w575h172-9qbr-jpg-image.html][img]http://img585.imageshack.us/img585/2807/9qbr.jpg[/img][/url][/spoiler] [spoiler][url=http://cosmopic.com/822v3523w558h197-qjle-jpg-image.html][img]http://img822.imageshack.us/img822/3523/qjle.jpg[/img][/url][/spoiler] I don't know if it's for me because it's been really long since we last talked. About three weeks I guess. ... and I dont even know if that jerk likes another girl now. He doesn't even talk to me. Okay I'm so damn affected. Sorry for the long reply.