[quote=theblottedmystery;#361330;1378534221]He never really confessed his feelings to me. I never did too. [b]It just shows on the way we act, the way we talk to each other.[/b] Those cheesiness. Carrying my bag. Preparing my food. Taking stolen shots of me. Putting his towel on my head when it rained. Hugging me secretly. Those crazy stuffs he do to make me smile[/quote]
Darling, take a hint. Even without confessions, it's obvious he likes you. Those aren't things you do to someone who's "just a friend."
[quote=theblottedmystery;#361330;1378534221]That would hurt. But as a guy, you should confess your feelings first right?[/quote]
One thing you must know about guys is, not all of us are ready to be emotionally naked. Besides, if he confessed, what would it be for? For what reason? A like/love profession would come off useless. Maybe he wants you to figure out that you like him too without the influence of his profession. And he already knows you're still trying to move on from your previous guy, so this all comes to @rph's answer
[quote=rph;#361318;1378525818]And if I were him, I would do the same. I wouldn't waste my time and invest emotions to people who still carry their emotional baggage up to the present.[/quote]
I would honestly do the same too.
Maybe all you gotta do is understand him. I don't know about what others think but in my opinion, the guy did the right thing. You said it yourself, he's easy to fall in-love with and if you two ever get together, it'd be difficult. This guy's saving himself and saving you. He's saving himself from another heartbreak (because this poor guy has had one too many), and saving you from the burden of choosing between letting go of your previous lover and stress over taking a risk in being with this guy.
If you feel lonely without him, then it's up to you what you're going to do about it. You could follow @Pawws' advice and move on or stay with your past. But I hope you understand it's only natural that the guy doesn't talk to you after everything that happened (and by [i]everything[/i], I meant the things you just shared in this thread).