[quote=Tres;#361333;1378536164]Darling, take a hint. Even without confessions, it's obvious he likes you. Those aren't things you do to someone who's "just a friend."[/quote] What if he's just the 'pa-fall' type? I mean, there are a lot of guys like that. Right? Okay , I seem so 'manhid' .. but I think it's better to be called 'manhid' than assuming.. [quote=Tres;#361333;1378536164]One thing you must know about guys is, not all of us are ready to be emotionally naked. Besides, if he confessed, what would it be for? For what reason? A like/love profession would come off useless. Maybe he wants you to figure out that you like him too without the influence of his profession. And he already knows you're still trying to move on from your previous guy, so this all comes to @rph's answer[/quote] Yeah ..and I do believe that love is not a noun to be defined but a verb to be acted upon. I can feel his feelings but I'm afraid I only feel one sided love. Maybe he is just too friendly. [quote=Tres;#361333;1378536164]Maybe all you gotta do is understand him. I don't know about what others think but in my opinion, the guy did the right thing. You said it yourself, he's easy to fall in-love with and if you two ever get together, it'd be difficult.[/quote] Yes. It would be very difficult . Since our office doesn't allow office romance. [quote=Tres;#361333;1378536164]his guy's saving himself and saving you. He's saving himself from another heartbreak (because this poor guy has had one too many), and saving you from the burden of choosing between letting go of your previous lover and stress over taking a risk in being with this guy.[/quote] .... why am I so dumb that I didn't even think about that? [quote=Tres;#361333;1378536164]If you feel lonely without him, then it's up to you what you're going to do about it. You could follow @Pawws' advice and move on or stay with your past. But I hope you understand it's only natural that the guy doesn't talk to you after everything that happened (and by everything, I meant the things you just shared in this thread).[/quote] I don't know what is the right thing to do. To stay like this forever or to take courage and confess that I like him despite the conflicts and despite the fact that it could lead to shame. So confusing.

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