[spoiler]@tres, you da man mah man. Tres the Philosopher.[/spoiler] As for blotted, [spoiler]Like Paw said, tell him up front. I think guys has this knack of knowing if the girl they like hasn't moved on from the previous boy in his life. Things were working out with you two and you just assumed he'll be there for you no matter what. I think the main point is, you could not move on because you were still caught up in your past. That's a big problem. Di ka makakapalag sa pag-ibig kapag di ka pa naka move on eh. Move on muna. As for that current dude, if he was really feeling you, he wouldn't have left you my dear. I'm done.[/spoiler]